“SMLL” Spoken Words🤍 (play guitar chords)

The worst advice you could give yourself is to take advice from others...

It never made sense to me why people included multiple parties in something that only took one to determine a true outcome in the first place. What I mean by this is that giving yourself insight on a situation instead of asking others is the best route you can take at times. You have to play it safe when it comes to telling people what you have going on. Sometimes asking people for advice does nothing but allow an issue that was once a private matter now be easily accessible and open to anyone. There's no way of knowing 100% that the business you discuss with someone will stay just between you two, loyalty just doesn't run as deep now-a-days; however, there is a way you could make sure your business stays quiet, which is keeping it to yourself and taking steps to solve it on your own. 

If you're reading this and instantly thought of a predicament you're currently in where you feel you need to ask someone for advice, think twice about it. First ask yourself how do you feel about the situation before you allow your mind to intake an opinion on what someone else feels: once your judgement is clouded, it's end game. Make sure you initially know what you want before you hear the word from someone else. A person will act like they have your best interest at heart, but will also be secretly finding enjoyment in watching you spiral out of control, watching you be clueless and directionless. Therefore, find measures you can take on your own that’ll help solve the issue, sit down and write down advice you can take from yourself instead of from other people. As we've all heard before... "only you know what's right for you."

*starts singing "Who needs that bad advice from you anwayyyyy?" (Reference to On the Run, part II)

Thanks for reading :)